Well, We're Done.

All im saying is not trying to get back with her just to get some.

I actually care and love for the girl and i would never use her.

Plain and simple.

And that makes for a great friendship. And that should be celebrated. Partially undressed in someone else's coat closet.
Listen, I'm busting balls because it's all I know and I wish I'd given myself such awesome advice when I was your age. Don't let some guy on the internet tell you how to live your life. It's not like I think you'll take my awesome advice anyway. But seriously though, the college girls are only getting chubbier from here. Go be awesome at something.

Originally Posted by DanPrixGTP

^ i could do that if we got back together but none of family or friends want me to get back with her... AT ALL.

She's an awesome girl, i know what she can be like but she has broken up with me three times (and came back when i was getting close to another girl). She has also cheated on me before, and the last 4 months of our relationship she treated me like sh*t and didnt give a f*ck about me.

So i ask myself, why do i keep running back to her? I just cant seem to move on from her

I was in a similar situation at the beginning of the year. Head over heels over a girl. She broke up with me and I wasted several months trying to get her back even though she treated me like **** and didn't give a **** about me with certain things, just like your saying. I thought I couldn't move on without her, but when I finally decided to let it go and move on...it was well worth it. It took a few months to completely get over her, but I really realized that I deserved better. You will do the same, but it definitely takes time. Now I'm with a different girl and happy that I moved on. Do the same and you won't regret it.

legit dude.. explore.. i know its annoying when everybody is telling you to do what you dont want.. cause none of us know how you feel bout her but i went thru the same **** she cheated i left she came back i went back an she left.. regardless she want to have the upper hand an see that she can get you back when ever she wants..

Originally Posted by Garrett Mofford

legit dude.. explore.. i know its annoying when everybody is telling you to do what you dont want.. cause none of us know how you feel bout her but i went thru the same **** she cheated i left she came back i went back an she left.. regardless she want to have the upper hand an see that she can get you back when ever she wants..

Exactly what everyone tells me. She is living on campus at college, playing volleyball, meeting new people, and having the time of her life and im here just whenever she needs me, and knows i will get back with her whenever she wants. Shes just keeping her foot in the door, so if nothing better comes along, then back to me she comes.

I need to come to realize that i cant allow her to do this.

thats the hardest part , but seriously you might be hurt.. dont let her know it.. put **** on twitter or facebook to make her think your fine.. do reverse psychology on her tell her you hope the best for her an you want her to find another dude.. just **** with her head bro.. i know you said you care about her but theres nothing wrong with seein how much she really cares..

Ignoring a girl is the worst thing you can do to them. They HATE IT. Try it. You'll enjoy the results.

Originally Posted by BoostenGTP

Ignoring a girl is the worst thing you can do to them. They HATE IT. Try it. You'll enjoy the results.

I second this, lol. I HATE it when my bf ignores my texts.

an because of that theyll never leave! theyll always wonder haha

It really is fun sometimes ignorin a girl not gonna lie. lol

it seriously is lol then when there yelling at you all you can do is laugh ahaha